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The Summer Expanse + Fall Renewal
As we transition back to school and the regular routine, as moms, some of us will suddenly realize that we have our lives back! We get up...
merryyen1
Aug 14, 20234 min read
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Parting with summer is such sweet sorrow
There is something that’s SO magical about the summer: the days are longer, the evenings are warmer. Without the school bell we’re all...
merryyen1
Aug 8, 20234 min read
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LOVE YOURSELF
One of our favorite “practices” when our family goes on a trip, is we plan for the breaks. As a general rule, We hire a babysitter to...
merryyen1
May 10, 20234 min read
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What do YOU want for dinner tonight?
Among the requests/questions I get, this is probably the most common, “how do you decide what to cook every night?” Maybe you’re a foodie...
merryyen1
Apr 17, 20234 min read
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To all the GALS I've loved before.....
I’ll go on the record and say that, with the exception of Christmas, I’m pretty much anti-holiday. I dislike all the consumerism, the...
merryyen1
Feb 13, 20233 min read
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What's the Opposite of a mid-life crisis?
I'm in the midst of my 40s now, and at this point, through the process of therapy, meditation, many years of self-discovery and ongoing...
merryyen1
Feb 2, 20234 min read
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New Year, Who Dis?
I’ll be honest, 2022 was a GREAT year. It was the first time in my entire adult life where I didn’t work a full time job (nor being home...
merryyen1
Jan 5, 20234 min read
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Am I a bad mom???
When was the last time you thought to yourself, “am I a bad mom for __________?” For me, it was a few weekends ago. We were on a 4-day...
merryyen1
Mar 25, 20224 min read
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We have no family... or do we?
Like many folks living in the Bay Area, Ben and I don't have any extended families living in the Bay Area. I came to the Bay Area to...
merryyen1
Dec 3, 20214 min read
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Love with Vigor, Laugh with Glee
I celebrated my 45th birthday last month. 45. It seems unreal. I remember turning 44, vaguely. I sort of remember 36 and 40, that’s when...
merryyen1
Nov 12, 20214 min read
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New Life, Who Dis?
Ever since I stopped working for Big Tech, I found myself ever-stepping into a more traditional mom/wife role: I take my 2 boys to school...
merryyen1
Sep 24, 20213 min read
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We LOVE San Francisco!! 2021 Labor Day Weekend Trip Report
In my late 20s (after I started working at Google), I learned about Burning Man. I heard that it’s basically one giant party in the...
merryyen1
Sep 16, 20215 min read
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We love the NEW Great Wolf Lodge (in Manteca!)
Just in time for Labor Day Weekend… Here’s a trip report from our visit to The Great Wolf Lodge in Manteca! In 2020 we visited the one in...
merryyen1
Sep 3, 20215 min read
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Be Kind, Decline (the extra stuff)
As a person who came of age in the 90's, I have fond memories of visiting Blockbuster Video on Friday nights, strolling through the isles...
merryyen1
Aug 25, 20214 min read
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The Schlep (AKA oh $h!* who's picking up the kids today??)
Starting next week we’re making a BIG change in our family. We’re moving my littlest one (A) to his brother’s school, starting on Monday....
merryyen1
Aug 20, 20214 min read
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So, your husband is a great guy.....
This post is in response to another post on the FB Moms In Tech group. The post was around that women tends to do most/all of the...
merryyen1
Aug 7, 20217 min read
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ROAD TRIP!!!!!!!
So, I’ll start by saying that we’re not road trip people. I don’t enjoy driving in general, and longer distance driving seems like...
merryyen1
Jul 28, 20213 min read
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Change is always going to be hard
So the Be Merry page has been quiet for a bit because there are big changes happening in my life. After 18+ years working for one of...
merryyen1
Jun 19, 20213 min read
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Keeping our sanity, one date night at a time
When Ben and I decided to get married, right after we booked a venue and booked an event planner…… we found a marriage counselor. We...
merryyen1
May 27, 20213 min read
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